The Breakup Pivot
What is The Breakup Pivot Series About?
The Breakup Pivot series is about positively changing the trajectory of the pain and heartache from your breakup. You have no control over other people’s actions, but you have control over your own thoughts and actions. With The Breakup Pivot series you will learn the tools and techniques that, when implemented and practiced, will result in a higher level of peace, joy, fulfillment, love, and success than ever before.
Why did I write The Breakup Pivot Series?
In all transparency—I had a devastating heartbreak in my 40s by a man that I loved deeply and had invested my heart and soul in. As a result of the breakup, my self-esteem tanked, I was angry, and I was sad and lonely—which led to many crying spells in the middle of the workday behind closed doors. However, heartbreak had not been a stranger—we had met before on a few other occasions. I was betrayed in my 20s, experienced the pain of marital infidelity in my 30s, and after my divorce I experienced this last heartbreak in my 40s.
But instead of being another heartbreak, the difference was how I decided to deal with it. I did not stuff the heartbreak down, pretending it did not happen or that it wasn’t that bad to quickly move on to the next relationship—which was how I had dealt with the pain in the past. There was a definitive moment that I got fed up with being in a painful rut and I got in the driver’s seat of my own story. I took the time to sit in the pain and work through it. Then I took a self-inventory of my baggage, behaviors and mindset. I realized that I had to make a pivot to head in another direction to get the life I wanted for myself.
I have been where you are and in the spirit of sisterhood, I am here to lead you to freedom from your heartbreak, unforgiveness, anxiety, fear and your self-limiting beliefs so you can experience life filled with peace, joy and success greater than ever before.
Who is The Breakup Pivot: Volume I- Overcoming Heartbreak written for?
The Breakup Pivot: Volume I is written for you if you were in a romantic relationship which ended most likely not on your own terms and you are sad, hurt, angry, devastated, in denial, have been downgraded to a “friends with benefits” category, or have entered into stalker-like activities. If you are still grieving the loss of the relationship then this book can help you overcome your heartbreak.
However, if you have been depressed (experiencing unhealthy/inconsistent eating habits, unhealthy sleep patterns, despair, irritability, loss of interest or emptiness) for more than six months or are suicidal (thoughts of ending your own life), I strongly urge you to seek professional counseling or contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at: 1-800-273-8255 immediately.
The Breakup Pivot
The Breakup Pivot series is divided into four (4) volumes to guide you through overcoming heartbreak, healing, rebuilding and designing your life.
Volume I-Overcoming Heartbreak takes you on a journey through the phases of Heartbreak Grief: (a) Shock, (b) Denial, (c) Anger, (d) Depression, (e) Desperate for Answers and/or Contact and (f) Acceptance.
Volume II-The Healing Process helps you with Forgiveness, Unpacking the Baggage, Overcoming Anxiety and Fear, and Ending the Sabotage Cycle.
Volume III-The Rebuilding Process helps you with Shifting Your Mindset, Caring for Your Body and Spirit, Gratitude as the New Attitude, and Raising Your Energy Vibration.
Volume IV-L.Y.F.E. by Design helps you with Finding Your “Why,” Goal Setting, the Power of Visualization, and Mindset Mastery.
The Breakup Pivot Book
“ If you are experiencing or have experienced heartbreak and still are not feeling quite like yourself, then this book is for you. If you just feel like you are in a rut and you want and need positive motivation to get to that next level, then I recommend this book series for you too.”
— Michele P., Huntersville, NC
“As the saying goes, breaking up is hard to do! The Breakup Pivot is a step-by-step guide for women who are determined to find their way through the haze of heartbreak and emerge as a better version of themselves."
— Rodia V., Norcross, GA
“The Breakup Pivot is a phenomenal book. If you need help getting to the root of a heartbreak after a breakup this is the book for you. Your soul and spirit will feel so free afterwards. The Breakup Pivot is hands on and it helps you to get to your breakthrough. I have clarity now on things that were holding me back and I am free to move to my next level. I highly recommend The Breakup Pivot.”
— Amber P., Lawrenceville, GA